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Now that you have started thinking about your values, try the following quiz. It is designed to help parents and caregivers identify how they would like their child or teen to feel about various issues related to sexuality. Again, there are no right or wrong answers.
How would I like my child/teen to feel about his/her body, including the sex organs?
How would I like my child/teen to feel about his/her role as a male or a female in our society?
How would I like my child/teen to feel about how men and women relate to each other?
How would I like my child/teen to feel about sexual intercourse and its place in one's life?
How would I like my child/teen to feel about:
Masturbation
Homosexuality
Teen intercourse
Sexual behaviors that do not include intercourse (e.g. touching or kissing)
Adult sex outside of marriage
Birth control/family planning
Abortion
Parenthood outside of marriage
Rape
Prostitution
Sexual abuse
Pornography
Marriage
Dating
What do I want my child to be capable of doing when she/he grows up?
Now take a few minutes to reflect on your answers:
Do you think your child/teen will agree with your answers?
How will you feel if they have different opinions?
How will you handle any differences in opinions?
Have your feelings about these issues changed over your life, or remained the same?
Where do you think your feelings on these issues came from?
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